“A happy person is not a person in a certain set of circumstances, but rather a person with a certain set of attitudes.”
Thinking..and probably re-thinking about it..trying to analyze..take it superficially..or getting deep into it..life goes on anyway!
So with a little consideration..i figured it out..(not life ofcourse coz life is too variabl to be figured out)..i meant the situation..or the feeling…that no matter what happens..we survive..
So..when I remember..or think..or whatever it is said abt getting ur mind into action..i realized that only good memories that one day made the heart happy enough or touched it with a glimpse of magic ..last..and those painful ones..trun into sad ones..and then nearly forgotten..they creep back ofcourse at times to scare us…but huuuhhh!!!we r survivors!!!!!
And that can be so logically explained!!!the mind..being the sane part (if it can be sane for a while) plays games..forgetting bad memories…the heart being the peaceful part agrees totally with that…so when we ..at some dark day..remember pain and suffering it can make us sad for a day..but whne we remember love and warmth..even if those things actually passed now..or disappeared for a while..we just feel a moment of peace..that's worth a lifetime..
So..when u feel sad..and I feel sad..it's just contagious..so that’s not bad..coz it means that I do feel what u feel…in other words..i am not alone in that!!!..coz the idea of my not being lonely..and having all those ppl who feel what I feel..gives me security for a time..
Can any of us deny that seeing one so happy makes u happy at ur worst moments..when u r supposed to envy him!!!!..
Why do we feel down at the first place??..coz some ppl disappoint us…so did we…and when some disappoint us..another some are just up to our expectations..or how r we supposed to find good in new ones??!!...sad coz of things we lose…what we lose was never meant to be ours..so why get sad??!!things we lose will come back to us in the most unexpected way…which means that we can never understand how this is going on..
How can we probably be sad with all that beauty around us..when we hav HE who watches over us..day & night..and above all love us…the UNCONDITIONED LOVE..when we know for sure that this sky above us every moment speaks of beauty..when we hav all those warm faces around us and we just wear our dark glasses and say..we don't see..
Afraid of what did happen..afraid of what will happen..what did happen is probably what we r..what would happen isn't even worth mentioning till it does happen…so we hav two choices…just get along with life..in a deal of being content..and just enjoy it cherishing all we hav now instead of crying what we lost..or keeping a clean heart and knowing that life is too weak to defeat us..coz we r survivors..and that ALLAH's greatness and mercy and his wisdom is just beyond our imagination..somethings are better felt..lived with heart..instead of being understood..
Special dedication to my dear friends Mohammad Samir..
“The reason people find it so hard to be happy is that they always see the past better than it was, the present worse than it is, and the future less resolved than it will be”
“Just think how happy you would be if you lost everything you have right now, and then got it back again.”
“Happiness is what happens to us when we try to make someone else happy.”
“Happiness is an attitude. We either make ourselves miserable, or happy and strong. The amount of work is the same.”
